The Power of Patience and Trust When Fostering Rescued Dogs
At Dallas Dog, we are faced daily with the challenges of last-chance saves. These are the dogs that are rescued just before they face euthanasia for various reasons. Today, I want to discuss the impulse to foster and save lives, emphasizing the importance of patience and allowing dogs time to adjust to their new surroundings.
Fostering a dog requires a specific set of skills, and two crucial ones are patience and providing a safe environment for adjustment. We cannot assume that these dogs automatically know they are safe, that they can trust us, or that our homes are places where they can let their guard down simply because we've opened our doors to them.
Rescue animals rarely come with a debriefing of their past traumas. It is our responsibility to learn about their backgrounds as they adapt to their new lives. This process takes time, and progress will be slow but steady with patience and understanding.
Let's take a moment to reflect on this. As humans, we don't approach complete strangers, embrace them, bring them home to meet our families and overwhelm them with everything all at once. We understand the need for time to process such significant changes. So, why would we expect a dog to react any differently?
We don't need to expose a dog to everything they've never experienced in a single day to compensate for their past hardships. With time and patience, they will come to see the love and care we have to offer. I urge you to take baby steps, introduce new things gradually, and avoid overwhelming them. Sit quietly with them, engage in activities like reading or watching TV, and use a soft voice and high-value treats to gain their attention.
Welcoming a new dog into your home should never be rushed. Whether it's a new addition or a long-term resident, the success of this transition depends on taking things slowly. During this significant change, it is critical to provide support and comfort to both new animals and those already present.
When meeting someone new, you don't bombard them with your entire personality. Instead, you observe their facial expressions and body language, and as you begin to feel safe, you gradually reveal more of yourself. Trust is essential in any relationship, and it takes time and numerous interactions to develop that trust. Just like humans, animals seek comfort in knowing that someone will stand by them through thick and thin. They wonder if we can be trusted and if we are different from those who have caused them fear in the past. Our dogs have been let down time and time again, and they experience emotions similar to our own. Some dogs may exhibit separation anxiety, fear of new people, food aggression, overbearing behavior, difficulty reading cues, trust issues, unfamiliarity with appropriate play and sharing, or overprotectiveness of their person.
Why do we expect dogs to act differently from humans? Why should a dog be expected to welcome every person or dog they encounter? Slow and steady wins the race. Bringing a dog into your home presents an incredible opportunity to rewrite their story. An open door is like a blank slate, and it is up to you to paint a picture of success for this rescued dog.
So, what kind of foster do you want to be? Will you throw them into chaos or set them up for success by providing a safe and secure environment? The success of this pup lies in your hands. Remember, there are abundant resources available to support you on this journey, so please don't hesitate to reach out.
Together, we can make a profound difference in the lives of these amazing dogs, one patient and trusting step at a time.
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Our rehabilitation efforts address the physical and emotional needs of rescued animals and prepare them for the second chance they deserve. You can make a difference by fostering, adopting, or making a donation toward these worthy animals. Thank you for supporting Dallas Dog. Our mission is to create a safer place for animals by rescuing and rehabilitating those who are neglected, unwanted and abused across Texas or displaced by natural disasters nearby and finding them a permanent home. You can visit our website at www.dallasdogrrr.org to follow our amazing journey.
